Of giving your heart to a dog to tear."
-- Rudyard Kipling
I knew this day would come, sooner rather than later, but I still wasn't prepared to have my sweet dog, Frank, put to sleep. He's been battling Lymphoma since last August and generally has been doing very well. Unfortunately, time has a way of tearing apart the body just as much as illness. He was about 13 years old, past the life expectancy for a dog his size. He'd gradually lost his hearing and a lot of his eyesight and often seemed a little out of it, like he wasn't sure where he was. Still, he enjoyed his walks and was enthusiastic about going to "Grandma's house" on Sundays for lunch and loved nothing more than hanging his head out of the window as we cruised down the road.
Back in January I thought I was going to lose him. He wasn't eating and he was panting heavy and he wouldn't stop pacing the floor. His back legs seemed to sag under his weight and he refused to lower himself to the ground. He spent a couple days at MedVet and after numerous tests they diagnosed him with pancreatitis. It broke me to see this poor dog looking so ill. I think part of his problem was they had him very doped up on painkillers, but he was obviously agitated, probably not sure why he was being left at the vet's and why things hurt and why he didn't want to eat. Even after he came home, it was several weeks before he was back to what passed for normal those days. I swore to myself that I wouldn't put him through that again. From the beginning my big concern was that he not suffer, that the quality of his days was more important than the quantity.
Last evening he didn't seem himself. I took him for a walk and he was very draggy and barely sniffed and moved at a snail's pace. Later I could see that he wasn't eating and I couldn't get his medications in him, even wrapped in a piece of lunch meat. He vomited and was trembling mildly and couldn't seem to get comfortable. This morning when I got up early to get my high schooler out the door, Frank was pacing the house, shaking and panting heavily and refusing to lie down or eat. This was too familiar. I warned the kids before they left that I was worried about him and it wasn't impossible I might have to have him put to sleep, that they should say their good-byes just in case. By the time the youngest got on the bus, Frank was obviously in bad shape. I went to my mother for advice since she loves dogs every bit as much as I. She thought it was time to let him go. My husband agreed.
The folks at Village Animal Hospital squeezed him in at 10:30 and couldn't have been kinder. My husband and I stroked Frank's head as the vet shaved his leg and then injected him. I had been crying all morning, but even my husband, who is not nicknamed "The Vulcan" for nothing, shed a few tears as Frank slipped peacefully away.
Young Frank with Baby Foghorn |
Patiently tolerating the pearl bracelet Foghorn put on him |
Often over the years I've thought of the shelter worker who called dogs like him "a dime a dozen." Was she crazy? This dog was one in a million.
Rest in peace, my sweet boy. You'll never be forgotten. |